Well we reached a settlement and have filed all the papers. I am very relaxed and have pretty much accepted it and am ready to move on. If you don't have kids it can be fairly smooth. Although not quite so smooth on the wallet. I cannot imagine getting married again, but then again I couldn't imagine it the first time either! Married at 40 divorced at 50.... Sorta like it never happened. Weird man weird. But her unstableness makes me glad to be free.
Over and out. I will pop in now and again for udates from this side of the whole crazy biz.