Quote: I saw things from a different perspective and realize that life has a lot more to offer than what I have been going through. Life is a journey and I will move on with mine. She has hers. I have learned a lot here and I am glad I went through it instead of around it. She is very unstable and I have lost all respect for her. She has hurt many people through all this. When you see your elderly parents who loved her like there own cry and then get angry you detach pretty severly.
Now I just want the D to go as smooth as possible and onward. If you love em set em free.
Yes - this is it! You have explained how I feel as well. Life has a lot to offer - much more than what we have been going through. I will never thank my STBXW for doing this to me, but I will be always grateful for being forced to go through the storm instead of around it.
I too have lost respect for my STBXW. More importantly, I am sorry she doesn't think enough of herself to realize she can be better than that.
At this point, I want my D to happen smoothly and be done by my unAnniversary (Feb 20).
You are right my friend - if you love them, you set them free!!!
Hang in there. You sound like you are in a good place.
