Well we are negotiating our settlement she is a lawyer so I cannot afford to go to war with her. Hopefully she will be fair I have a lawyer who will look over the settlement. She moves out at the end of the month and I can't wait. It is much too painful to be around her I just want to end it quickly now.

Well after being together 12 1/2 years and married for 10 1/2 years we had our first real fight this morning when I mentioned that I am eligible for alimony. Not that I want it but as a bargaining chip. We sort of made up and joked about our first fight. I asked if makeup sex was around the corner and she said "nice try." She wants kids now her new thing.... but not with me.