Well I did pretty good last night. Went detach and last resort. She wants the D. The MC asked why she had no real answer. The MC asked if there was someone else repeatedly and she swore NO. So the MC said why should what your going through on your past ruin your marriage. She really had no answer other than that she could not share it with me or anyone. Basically we got sorta close on a weird level cause I stopped fighting her. The MC talked about what D would be like... the specifics. W is still adamant but I was well detached and she broke down at home and I comforted her as a friend and did not make it about me. She is going to look for a place for January to move into and she wants me to keep the house and buy her out. Hopefully I will be able to do this.

Santhony Lissett sherman33 anybody out there your thoughts please.