In my sitch, my wife start IC for 5 months (the guy she saw was pro divorce - but that is another story). We were in MC for 6 weeks. As soon as the MC started digging a little she bolted (I'd also found out about an EA that was happening about the same time).
But I know my ex was very uncomfortable with the MC. She has intimacy issues and the joint therapy was very threatening to her. How does your wife do with sharing here feelings with you?
Quote: She said she will be in therapy for years.
This is a VERY true statement. There's years of behavioral patterns that have been laid down and it takes years to work through them. What was her family of origin like? Were there any emotional issues?
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.
