Thanks you guys so much gotta remember to detach and that it is not over. Had to face a lot about me last night too. Things she never said but held in. Actually carrerwise some exciting things have been breaking... probably due in part to this process so I am very thankful for that for friends family and all of you. I am off to watch some basketball with my friends... I was never a sports fan till now and that blows her mind when she sees me watching football.