Blues - I am not quite sure why you asked me to look at your thread, but here is my input...
Your wife is going through something really heavy... I doubt that you will ever be able to understand that - at least that is how your W sees it... It seems to me she is quite depressed. I am not sure why her T hasn't given her a script for something... As for the childhood issues... I had those too, but mine were about self esteem (no sexual anything), alcoholic mom, abusive mom... Yada yada... Despite all the crap in my childhood - I adored my mom and held nothing against her, although - after I went to therapy I told her some stuff... Only after she dies did I find her poetry about my pain, her pain, mainly about how I made her feel about being a mom...
I think once a peron is made to divuldge into their childhood, they begin to realize some stuff - some painfull stuff that can affect their entire lives...
I think it was today that your W said she wanted a D..?? Did I read that correctly? Did anyone ask her why??
I guess, Blues - I want more info and may be able to provide you with any - novice insight that I have... Again - not sure why you asked me to look in on you but, I have, so please give me more, and I will give you all I've got...
