HELP HELP HELP. We went to our first MC session together last night and it went awful. She wants a D and is only going to MC because her T said she must. It was very emotional on my part mostly she was pretty frickin' cold. 12 yrs together 10 married and she had this big epiphanny 6 months ago and now she wants children.... but not with me. I got a vasectomy 8 yrs ago at her behest so we could be more "spontanious" (I have some on ice still) She LMBNILWM this is gut wretching. She sounds so adamant about it and when she makes her mind up that is usually it. All her childhood issues are coming up and I think she must have someone in the wings. I don't really want to know though because if we get back toghether and I know I will never be able to get it out of my mind. I am so sad and lost. I have friends to go see tonight which will help. We are scheduled to go next week too. Its the only time we talk about anything of importance. Can't seem to do it on our own.
Any thoughts or ideas? Anyone. Should I buy an online session. Feeling very hopeless.
