Well I think I may have some good news though I won't get too excited I will keep a PMA. First thanks Lissett I have been going over the mlc basics. I called my wife's T to see if she had made plans for MC and she had. She had a rough T session on Wednesday so I was concerned and she had not mentioned anything about it. Then last night she came home from work early and said she had made plans for MC.

I know she is only going because her T told her she must but I am hoping for the best. We had a pleasant evening last night with pizza and about an hour of TV together before she went upstairs. She even did one of our little jokes we used to do... nice to see some of my old gal. This morning she was cold again but I guess thats how it goes... right? I am almost always upbeat and positive which if you are depressed I guess could get annoying so I tone it down. She had another session this morning so I will see how she is tonight.

Thanks to all for your insights.