Well went to my W's T with her at my urging. After speaking with me the T said I was not the man she had been describing. That I was very emotionally available. She was very withdrawn throughout the session the T had to draw her out. She has childhood issues..... I am a nuturer and her parents were nurturers that turned on her.
She has felt I don't have the depth to understand this. Anyway her T said she was not to make any major decisions for 6 mos it has been only four of her C. Her T urged her to get MC with me for the next 2 mos. Seems like she has already made up her mind that it won't work. I like her T she is a good one and we hit it off great. Originally my W had wanted me to come so her T could explain why she wanted to leave. We went deeper.
I told her I did not realize the depth of her pain and she said she did not either.
