Don't initiate the hugging everytime. I am a hugger & found that WAH was not open to our usual hugs & had to back off. This was a 180 for me & will be for you if you use to do this every morning.
Sometimes our S must miss what use to be the norm, in order to want it back.
An opportunity will come up, maybe a celebration hug, or a group hug with your pet. Just don't push too hard, been there, done it & had to back peddle.
Sending positve thoughts your way.
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
