I think all these WAS's feel differently about hugs, or any other physical contact. As for me, I can't touch my H, it is like he is allergic to me, or I will set him on fire. (see it could be worse)
but some accept the hugs, and are ok with it and being physical.
I would say you have to feel her out, notice i said feel her out not feel her up, you rascal.
you will see iin time, what your W feels ok with.
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