thanks guys,I felt soooo good, it's like both of us closed the door, together, to the whole ordeal and I can now move on much lighter...
but...
I still dont' buy the Vegas trip explanation, he told me it wasnt' planned as a trip with her --before you tell me "why does it matter now?" it is just that I dont' want any more lies. He insists that it was a failed group trip w/a group from work, yes, she was going too but at the last moment a bunch of them, her included were told to go on a job-related trip.
All the resevertations for shows and plane were for 2 people according to the card, when I asked him about the 1bedrm hotel he said he said he'd made all the reservations for his guy friend and himself and they were going to split the costs, and that the hotel was the only reserv. he didnt' make for the friend. I dont' get it, all those plans and it was w/his friend? Otherwise I believed everything else he said.
I want to believe him so bad, I need to know that the other ticket, the one he had to cancel was for his friend, if I get that info I will totally believe and won't even question him about a ring he'd bought at the time (he had an explanation for that one too, I've seen the ring, he has it)
I want to know that he told me the truth, I hope the ticket is under a guy's name, I sure hope so, I'm waiting on the airlines for that answer.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.