Quote: The 2nd email explained him that even though he's been wornderful these past weeks, not knowing certain things about the A was making me obsess about it. Maybe I screwed up, but the thing is... I felt free!!!
Good on ya!!!!!!!!!
See there you were direct about something without being manipulative or demanding, and complimentary as well, and just stated the fact and got it out there and let him know how tough that was for you. It's his choice to respond to that at this point and as long as you don't bug him about it, maybe he will?
The same thing worked with my W; she was much more sympathetic to my position and willing to help a little when I was able to express the emotional realities in a non-emotional and honest way without demanding any kind of response. I said it once and let it go and she was open to that.
Not saying it will work with your H, but you were open and honest and direct without being too needy and stuff.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
