ok, I just MUST copy toughlover's phrase so we can all chisel it onto our brains for future reference when our feelings carry our brain away
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However, letting those feelings of despair dictate your attitude and behavior now is really just doing what the cheaters did: allowing your feelings to control you, rather than making sound choices then following through regardless how it feels sometimes.




Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.