The sitch is quite terminal and I know that any time she starts having second thoughts I only need to wait a few hours until she changes her mind back. This has happened countless times and by now I just ignore it.
So, last weekend I ask what is happening for NYE, and she says we'll just hang around the house with the kids. Then about mid-week I am informed that she is "going out", with no other explanation. Hmmm. So then yesterday I flat out asked her where she was going. She was going to a mutual couple's house to a large party. Apparently, I'm not invited. Okay. At 1AM the phone rings (Happy New Year!), and it is the wife of the couple, informing me W has passed out on her couch after having too much to drink. Not sure how that goes with her meds, but I don't even know what she's taking (none of my business - so I've been told). Anyway, I just said thanks for the call. W shows up about 10am, saying she didn't want to drink and drive (score one for common sense, -1 for alcohol abuse), and proceeds to the bathroom to get sick. Nice. She want's to be primary caregiver and she's doing this.
She did this (got sick after drinking too much) in November after our running club party. So that's twice in about two months. Not sure that's full case of addiction, but just another thing I need to watch for as the sitch progresses. So much fun.
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