Things are ok with me Tom. Thanks for asking. I'm actually in a pretty good place. I've gotten some answers as to why my W is the way she is and as I've been DBing and distancing I'm seeing all the things in that regard that I have been kind of hiding from myself for a long time. Things are changing in ways that have made me much more self-confident and more self-assured no matter how my M turns out. I still have a long road with the health of my eldest and the emotional well-being of my younger two but I'm not in a bad place at all. I mu=ght even become a poster child for self-preservation through DBing, lol.
Stand up for what is right, even if you are standing alone.
