Hey there B4S! For some reason I thought I'd check in to see if anyone I knew was still hanging around and I stumbled on to your sitch. Looks like the SOS, man.
Three sort of random things popped into my mind. Do what you want with them. It's your crazy world, not mine:
1. Great observation by someone earlier that W is terrified that you will have another relationship with someone else. Thus the weird ideas about you living with parents or friends.
2. Do either of your lawyers ever keep an appointment? Seems kind of fishy to me. You're still in the same place you were months ago the last time I visited here. [censored] or get off the pot B4.
3. This is what I would do so it's probably the wrong thing to do - I'd find a way to video record one of your "discussions of terms". Have D14 do it as a neutral observer. Do you think it would improve W's behaviour? It could be used as proof of her irrationality to her C? To her lawyer? To W? I know it really hit home to me once when I watched a tape of me melting down while playing a game with my kids. Snapped me back to reality in an instant. Could be a total waste of time too? But it's what I would do. Try something different.
Hope you make some progress and get out of there soon with as many kids as possible. Take care B4.
