I think Tom may be on to something here if things turn very nasty and you need it. I have found out that in Ohio at least, there is no patient confidentiality if the best interests of the kids are at stake. I can subpoena the counselors and the records for examination in the court. Our MC actually even told me to make sure I do subpoena him so he can testify. It might not help a lot but it certainly can't hurt you if you get into a nasty custody situation.
Stand up for what is right, even if you are standing alone.
