She needs to be persuaded to find a new counselor. It appears she is perhaps telling this C alot of one sided crap and certainly has not addressed her MI/MH issues.

I once suggested that maybe you ask her to get a copy of her C's file on her.. for you to see and you thought that she would balk on the request. I still think it is worth a try...or at the very least asking your w if you can attend a C session with her. I mean there is a reason this C is hell bent on divorcing you, B4 !

Tom