Thanks for the encouragement, I need it. No waivering in W about me moving out, she is saying she doesn't want any excuses why I couldn't leave. No last second reprieve here, apparently (not that I thought there would be one). I have not doubt whatsoever that my marriage is over.

W has already gone through about $2500 with the atty, and we haven't even had a meeting yet. I don't know what the heck she's doing. And they're talking about financial guys, coaches, etc., of course all on our nickel. And I need to pony up $3-5k in the next two week for deposits and rent. The nightmare is over two years old, and just beginning. At least W has a job that will cover some of this crap.


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