Yep, so true. Well, it didn't take long for her to renege on her commitment to go to the marriage seminar. She had a session with her C tonight and that was apparently the outcome. I am now actively looking for a place to move to, and will be out by Dec 1. I'm actually excited about it, W has been completely out of her mind today, which makes this a bit easier. Kids are looking glum, but they see how she treats me (and them) and they understand completely. They started discussing the possibility of moving with me, but that will be a topic for later after I get a new permanent place.
D14 kind of broke my heart tonight. She said the psycho stuff in the family would end with her - exactly what I said to W about 15 years ago, that we would be the ones to break the cycle from her family - I hope D14 can do better than I have. And picks someone without all the mental illness history. It really sneaks into every interaction in some way if you really watch.
Today W was crazed to get the colloborative D meetings going, and went so far as to accuse me and my atty of trying to drive her insane by delaying - two hours after telling me she wanted to have the meeting. So I get accused of this crap when I haven't even TALKED to my atty yet. I am so ready to be alone and without the paranoid behaviors. I hope the kids enjoy the ride.
built4speed My Saga "How others deal with the gifts you've given is not your decision, but theirs." - Richard Bach
