Now it takes a twist to the truly bizarre. W is pressing for a collaborative D meeting, but then says she will back off to give us time to work the church marriage seminar. The first time we could all meet is in December. She says she wants to then schedule a rapid fire set of meetings to finish the D. What??? She says we will have done most of the marriage meetings by then, and can proceed. I ask why we are doing any marriage meetings. She says it's because she promised her divorce group at church she would go to the marriage meetings. I don't get it.
It's like she is completely uninterested in fixing the marriage, but is checking this off so she can say she "tried". I need to decide if I want to continue to be a pawn in her charade. I guess I can do anything for a few weeks. If she looks like she is really trying, then okay. But if she's just phoning it in, I'll be gone.
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