Of course we remember you I don't come as often anymore but from time to time I would cruise by the BD Board and look what I found...Happy to hear you are making your own life even if sometimes you wish for your XH and the way it used to be. Hey, take your time meeting or dating guys. You are not obligated to do anything but just have fun. And since your heart still is not quite there, then it is better for you to just be honest and say hey...I can't seem to let go of this love for my XH...until you do, it's not fair to get somebody else involved. You may never get over him. I sincerely hope you do. There are really nice people out there if you just take time to get to know them.
I envy you having a grandbaby. My son is only 19 though and so not quite ready for that. Heck, he does not even have a girlfriend. My life has been going pretty smoothly now. My X & I do not talk or communicate any. Have not seen him in over a year and it will be a year for me since the D was final end of Nov last year. He married the "ho" about three weeks after the D was final. I don't know how he is doing since I don't ask my son. I think they started talking again this month after being silent since April. I took my son with me to my home country last May along with all my siblings and his cousins. There were 17 of us on the plane together. We took them to all the tourist places in the Philippines and our last stop was the place where we grew up. They met all kinds of relatives while we were there. We had such a great time that all the nephews/nieces bonded with each other and now are excited for our thanksgiving reunion in my sister's house.
My lovelife is kind of on hold. I am in a long distance R with an old boyfriend back in my home country. I saw him when I was there but only for a very short time. I will see him again when I go for my vacation in May. He said something about making his way to the US once again after the May elections there of which he is in charge of running his brother's campaign. His family is into politics big time. We do talk each week. I had fun with him while I was there. We'll see how this goes.
All I know is that God does have a reason why my marriage ended. Maybe because my family will need my help financially and I could not do that while married to my XH. I don't ask anymore why. Just that it opened lots of options for me. Am now free to join my family in all our get togethers. Attend high school reunions here or in the Phils and have a blast each time. Have my own friends here to hang out with. So, actually my social life improved a great deal without my H around. So, do I miss him? A big no...I have a lot of wonderful memories about our old life. But they are all in the past. We may never be friends and I am ok with that. I gave it my best. He ended itSo, I am truly done with him.
