I was not surprised he tried out chatting about OW. I think most WAS would love it if the LBS would let them know everything's alright and accept what WAS has done and happily engage in chats about OP. Would assuage the WAS's guilt, validate what they've done. But that is, as I think you've said, quite a fantasy. Yes, I know people who do it, but they are few and far between. My H made noises in our last conversation about awkwardness of talking to me whilst knowing I won't want to hear about OW2 but too bad! You were right to set that boundary. None of us needs any more reminders of betrayal.
