Yes! He used to be so sensitive and aware.Now it is like his head is in a balloon. I suspect that OW is very opinionated and feeds him platitudes which he swallows.. making him feel alright about things. He probably thought my friendliness meant I no longer minded about his betrayal and loss and all the damage done by OW. Now he knows he cannot now just try to introduce her to me as if we were all friends That was one of his early fantasies.. I was to meet someone wonderful for me.. and who knows, Hoho, we could all get together and chum up!!
I also dread meeting her.. eg at wedding or funeral.. I suspect she will try to introduce and force herself on me, or get H to make us meet.Seems their style. I hope you and your family also have a wonderful time Mojo!