Hi Calder, A belated Happy B'day from me too! You are a wonder woman!
How odd that your h keeps cancelling these meetings. Nothing you can do about his excuse making exercises but it does not make him look like a winner.
I hope you are better now at not letting the anticipation rattle you. Good of you to be sympathetic - but what option when he claims illness? Wish I was there to share the home cooked meal and help you with not letting it go to waste. xxx Amy