Calder, I haven't seen any of your posts for a while. What day was your birthday? Happy birthday to you. Mine was on 11/24 and I kept it quiet and worked on my house. I still miss husband and our family but I'm pushing myself forward to at least try for the things in life I want. If I don't do it...I don't know who will.

I really do need to get some sleep...so, happy holidays to you and I'll bookmark your post.