Thank you for the affirming post on my thread. As I remember, you have also been very forthright with your h at times. And to good effect.
So I think you should raise the topic of your son's feelings about OW. I know you will be able to pull it off in a way which gets through to your h without making him defensive. I am your student here, and you do have the skills to do this successfully, that's clear.
And I feel that more honest communication is not only possible when the time is right, but productive too, and certainly more rewarding than doing the DB dance which we have all learned so well.
It is a matter of timing, and your situation has also been going on for some time now, so I hope you are able to bring some issues into the light which need to be resolved.
Good luck!
Love and hugs
Jayxxxx
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
