I've been rushing around, singing and already planning next year's festival! Yes, keeping a life of our own which works for us has to be key. The difficult bit might be fitting a man into mine!
It must be hard to see your h and spend a seemingly lovely evening together, I'm not sure I could put myself through that, although I think it's exactly the right thing for you.
Has he seen the new bathroom yet?
Well, I have certainly moved beyond DBing with R. His 15 year old e mailed me again on Monday and seems so sad again, and to be blaming himself because his dad doesn't spend time with him. I have e mailed Rhett a couple of times, giving my professional opinion. Joe lost his mum when he was 6 (I didn't mention effectively losing his dad to MLC at 12) and I explained how that might have affected his emotional maturity and influenced the need for greater closeness than most lads his age. I was as tactful and positive as I could be but R still seemed a bit defensive. But I'm past caring, I just hope he does something for Joe because I'm genuinely worried about him. I broke my own no contact rule, but all in a good cause. I also mentioned his new relationship, first time ever.
Has your h got in touch yet?
Much Love
Jayxxxxx
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
