Thank you for your post! Well, I tried phoning H on his mobie tonight but no reply and no message service So I just emailed him that,and to phone me tomorrow if wishes,as out next few nights.
I expect he will want to come out here one evening after work. He usually has his meal here ,then chats.. can stay 2-3 hours. All sociable.. like nothing has happened.That is the hard bit.
He wants to photograph the classic car ,in bits, which is in the garage, and was part of his retirement project,now to be sold.
(Like his Father's metal working workshop he inherited, also for retirement,also to be sold..)
How he is going to do it not sure.
Bits in 2 garden sheds, the attic, garage and under a bed in spare room!
Well I am sticking with me good female friends.. I know who will be there for me if NG etc ,goes pearshaped. So I agree.
Not give all up for a man ever again! Try to get both if possible!