One of the things I relish on this board is reading about so many long term wives who find themselves absolutely blossoming, despite their heartache. It's heady stuff, becoming an individual again!
It hasn't been quite so heady for me since I went through the metamorphosis at the end of my first marriage I lost myself for a while in the second, but soon bounced back - in that way at least.
As you always say, still some sorrow and may always be, but a life full of good things and good times and good people.
And the fact that we are still in touch with the sorrow at times means we aren't practicing denial and avoidance like them, but are healing from the inside out. They try it the other way round but that's never going to work is it?
Have a great time, but you are the world's best at getting the enjoyment out of every situation!
Much love
Jayxxxx
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
