Hey BigB, so where are you at with all this, I'm confused why you would be dating right now? I understand the trust issues and the concerns about what will happen, but will it help you improve your R dating right now? Your W wants to work towards rebuilding the friendship, and then go from there, so does she know your dating?

If the DB principles are working and it is what you chose to try and do to salvage your M, why look elsewhere when you should be working on getting what you need from your W? Are you saying that you are done with your M?

Just trying to get my head around what exactly you are saying here.

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09