We didn't go bowling, but we did visit with the friends and had a lot of fun just talking and joking. This morning W called me about 8am and was worried becouse the check engine light was on in her car.I told her to come by and let me look at it. Couldn't find anything wrong, so she went on to see her brother as she had planned. Later, not sure what time, probably about 10 am she comes in and says she was feeling sleepy and dizzy and feel asleep in the bed beside me ( again, fully clothed ^%$%$#$#^! LOL) and we woke up about 1:30 pm. yes, I was up late, and I've been on night shift. Well, she gets up and leaves. I haven't been snooping much lately, but I was curious and decided to check the cell phone records. It seems that maybe she sent him a text message as soon as she left my house last night and he called her back a little later. They talked several times last night , totalling about an hour. Some of the calls came as early this morning as 4:30 am. No wonder she was sleepy! I'm not going to mention it to her, but I feel like I had backed off just a little and now I see that was wrong. Actually I knew it was wrong when I did it, but I really wanted her to go to the family dinner with me. Oh well, back to GAL and asserting my boundaries.
