Oh yeah, she jumped at that one. This morning, (sunday) when she was on her way to her mom's, she came over and let herself in and came into the bedroom and gave me a very sweet, romantic card. She said to read it later when I was awake. It was a Blue Mountain Card. They are really nice and we've always given them to each other. It seems were always able to find one that says what we need them to for that particular situation. This one was talking about how I have always been there for her through good times and bad, how I'm the only person who can truely hurt her, becouse I'm the only one she loves and how If she had her life to live over again, she's still choose to love me. That was sweet. Another interesting thing about it, was that the card was written by Donna Fargo. She did the country music song " I'm the happiest girl in the whole USA". Anyway, my W didn't know who she was.
Today I went to help my friends move thier hot tub. She called when she got back in town and I went by to see her for a little bit. No drama, no relationship talk, just chillin'. Got a nice hug and a pat on the ass on my way out . When I got home and got online, I had a few request from members of the DB board on myspace. Cool! Maybe I'll get a chance to talk to some of them. Only problem is that I dont get enough done for being online lately. I need to get some projects done outside, but it sure is getting cold out there lol. Well, I've given her some positive time together this weekend. Now I need to focus on not giving her too much attention. I don't mean to be a butthole about it, but not always be there for her, GAL and stuff. I think I will ask her to go to Thanksgiving with me though. I think that would say something if she did even though I didn't go with her to hers. I think the role reversal in the past few weeks is awesome! She's trying, but she's gonna have to give up OM, or I'm gonna keep being distant to a point. Besides, I've been having alot of fun flirting and gettin phone numbers and talking to women. They're not what I want. I want my wife back, But I want her back the right way, with both of us working just as hard at it as the other. As always, if anyone on here see's a problem in the way I'm going about this, I'd love some constructive critisism. Really, I would. Don't beat me up too bad though.
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