Hey, I sent the W a text this morning about the time she would be getting ready for work.It said that if she wanted to talk, to call me. She did. We did the usuall small talk and I asked her what she had meant by " I'm too weak ". She said it was hard to explain. I asked her if it was like the questions I asked in the last post. I never did get a good answer. I told her I just didn't understand it.
This afternoon, while on my way to work, she called me and we talked for 10-15 mins. She told me that she would like to come to my place tonight, while I was at work to do her laundry, and that way she wouldn't be in my way this weekend. I kinda did the heavy sigh thing, and she said " well, you don't want me around , do you ? " I changed the subject. My son's Bday is Saturday. I had bought him a soft carrying case for the rifle his aunt & uncle bought him. They suggested this as a good gift idea to go along with the camo boots I had already got him. Then I find out that they bought a case for him themselves. So now I have to take that one back and get something else, so as we were talking about his Bday and what she could get him, I suggested that she wait and come over to do her laundry on Saturday and we could go get him something together. She thought that was a great idea. So I softened a little bit. That should please any of you who thought I was being too hard. LOL.
It will give us a chance to talk more and for me to show a PMA. If this all goes well, I know she'll ask me about going to the inlaws for their Thanksgiving dinner this sunday. I'm still mixed on whether I should go or not, but I do miss them and havent seen them since August. None of them have seen me since I've lost weight either. That would be a surprise to them. Anybody have an opinion on this ????
