I've tried to keep up here, but wow. I agree with Rob and Swashy. You're in the driver's seat, that's for sure. Is the book you are referring to possibly Facing Love Addiction? It does appear that you got fed up. I am rooting for you, but from the outside I'm not sure if it is an approach that will get you lasting positive results. I hope it does, though. We do know our own sitch like nobody else does. Just don't be too hard-headed about things.
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Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
Is the book you are referring to possibly Facing Love Addiction? It does appear that you got fed up. I am rooting for you, but from the outside I'm not sure if it is an approach that will get you lasting positive results. I hope it does, though. We do know our own sitch like nobody else does. Just don't be too hard-headed about things. 
