STRENGTH? Idunno, I think it's more like just being fed up. As far as the "guess it's too late" line...100% guilt trip attempt. Now she can do what she wants. She can keep seeing him and leave me the hell alone, or she can get her act together and try to salvage our relationship. But to be honest with you, I really am on the fence right now. I don't know that I would be as gung ho to work on it as I was a few months ago. I guess working on myself has resulted in my realizing that I don't need her. I can be just fine without her. I WANT HER to be in my life, but I don't want to live with the mistrust either. She would have to make some serious effort to rebuild the trust.
Right now, the game plan is to do my own thang. talk to some women, maybe even go on a date, and let her sweat it out. I have been WAAAAY more patient and understanding than most men would have been.
