about telling family, I personally think it is better not so say much to them, my family only know "we were havign problems". Sadly, because our families care so much for us they interfere and gives us wrong council, only people who've been in our very shoes could ever understand what is to go through this, anyone else will just tell you to pack and leave.
I'm so sorry to hear that he's got that obsecion w/gambling, could you perhaps try to compromise w/him so he can play x amount of hrs?
When he said he'd give it up for one week did he have some other thing to do? something else to occupy his mind? can you perhaps join some club or activity in the evenings so he can have something else to focus on?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
