I went to the website, and I thought it was a good place to get some advice. I, too, believe it is right on. I have no problem with the way they say women are supposed to behave, our church teaches some things from the Bible that some people find hard to understand, like women can't lead the men in worship or prayer. I am trying to be that kind of wife, and my H is finding it very hard to believe the changes in me are real. He thinks I'll go back to the way I was, and says he can't believe I have kept it up for over three months. I told him this morning the changes are from the heart and they are here to stay and I was working on the rest tof me, too. Honestly, other than keeping it up, I don't know how to show him this. Thanks for the info about the site. I hope you can find some way to help your H with his gambling, surely there is a place to get you help so you can help him. L