Thanks for the reply. I tried unsuccessfully for a long time to get him to go to counseling, either alone or together. He is the most stubborn, self-sufficient man I know. Also in great denial about there even being a problem. It is my belief that until he turns his heart back to the Lord and acknowledges his own insufficiency, he will not realize that he is doing anything wrong or destructive. Perhaps a light-hearted talk today if I can get him to go to dinner with me, away from the kiddos. Thanks again.


H 40 Me 40 married 15 years 5 children aged 2-11 Bomb 2-6-05 Now we are piecing, I think