Simple Question

[MariS]

Inherjourney

I regret my WAH-MLCer to my knowledge is not going to C.

We tried it right after I confronted him about the A, but soon realized he was doing it to appease me. Plus later learned he had been going a little on his own when he told me he needed his time & space, back in august. That was when I started to find out more about his childhood. (parents always arguing) Wish I had the DR book then.

The A was with a younger women out of state last year for about 9months. Too my knowledge it did end months ago, with her being devistated to learn the truth about me & child. She thought my WAH-MLCer was single, she wanted lots of kids & they had been going on trips(wineries, mexico, etc.), so he was basically doing a number on her too.

Friends WAH-MLCer refers to are a few married couples & single guy friends (people I know too as his wife). Not sure how much these friends know & I can't worry about the single guy friends, who I know are not the best of infleunce. There will always be those type of friends around.

As to religion, well, he isn't an athiest, but he believes religion was created by man to control the masses.

I am sorry to write that I don't think my WAH-MLCer is receiving the guidance & direction that he so desperately needs. Unless, there is some way that child & I are providing it.

His Mom & brother are praying for us & are hoping we will work it out. There is the possiblity that one or two of the married guys & one of the single guys are helping him, but not like a good GF does.

Thank you very much for your words of encouragement.