MariS... My best advice to you in to just stay neutral. Try not to let H know you are putting out your feelers, so to speak. Try your best to get through the day as evenly as possible. Your H's head is in a jumble now...things will change day to day, as you have already experienced. I am wondering...who are the influences in H's life? Who are these friends he's referring to? What do his parents ( or other family) say? Is he in any kind of counseling...I think I know the answer to that one! Is he still involved in his A? Does he have strong religious beliefs? He needs a lot of guidance and direction...where is that coming from?
