brandnewday,

No, I have not asked H what he wants.

First, I am afraid.

Second, I figured I was still in the limbo land area, where I need to keep my mouth shut, not rock the boat & wait for H to bring up the subject of R/M.

Third, with holidays approaching, I didn't want to give added pressure.

I would love to have conversation w/H, but don't think this is the right time of the month due to my hormones...

I feel that I am still being tested & that my WAH-MLCer is still working through some of his own demons.

Having a blah day.


MariS

"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"

Become the change you want to see.....

Me - 37
WAH - 35
child - 2yrs
Separated - August '06
Married - 10yrs, Together 18
Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08