brandnewday & others,

I have been making minor adjustments around the house, ie. flowers, changing light bulbs, air freshner, etc.

The girlie goodies, & minor wardrobe changes were on my list for this weekend....but after last Wed. & yesterday afternoon , I'm confused. (WAH probably is too) Trying not to push, but when the opportunity is there, I am certain not going to turn it down. This coming from the LBS with the LSD.....

A month ago, I had a 30hr reprive from my reality (girl time away from the house-checked into a hotel). WAH stayed the night at our house, looking after child/pets/house.

This time, I am asking for the same thing, but since I don't have the $$$ for hotel room, spa treatments, etc. I would like to stay in our guestroom.

Basically, I would like a 30hr break from being "Mom" & have one night to go out, come home & not have to worry about taking care of child/pets/house first thing in the morning. Plus the day/afternoon for me to have "free time" to go shopping, have lunch w/GFs, movie, etc.

Since the seperation, I have only had that one weekend & I was hoping maybe to have that chance once a month.

The vibe I was getting this morning is WAH is willing to help, but is wavering on the idea. My thought is he is worried about spending the night will I'm there, but he did that last week anyway.

Am I asking too much too soon?

MariS

"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"

Become the change you want to see.....

Me - 37
WAH - 35
child - 2yrs
Separated - August '06
Married - 10yrs, Together 18
Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08