I also never really got into the flirting thing BUT I also know that my H needed me to act more like a woman, I think it made him feel more like a man.
I was always in Mommy mode.
Needless to say I went on a little shopping trip, bought lots of little goodies..just in case.
Once our physical relationship resumed again and I made efforts to do a 180 in this area I think it really broke down a huge emotional wall for both of us.
I know we all have doubts and we get fearful at times but life is too short not to give it another whirl.
Let down you guard a little and enjoy the fact that rebuilding will be a whole new and healthy adventure for both you and your Husband,
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
