Simple Question

[MariS]

Thank you to each of you who replied that this is normal.

WAH knows that I'm wanting to work on the M, & I'm taking the conversation from last Thurs., where he said "things are going too fast & we need to talk about what we each want out of this R, but that did not need to be today," as WAHs way of saying he is considering the thought of giving it a try. (H invited me out for dinner last week & ended up spending the night)

I'm seeing a few positive signs, but am trying my hardest not to get my hopes & expectations up. My old M/R are dead, & I would like to rebuild by getting to know the new H & him to know the new me. At the same time, I can see him still having some MLC issues (what I call his demons). I know I'm not out of the woods yet & still being tested.

Will keep reading my books, but will also start to look for one on the art of flirting....it has been years.

Any suggestions?