Settled on our house Sept 11. What's with us and the dates! I have tended to think of transitions like moving as times to throw out the garbage meaning check to see if there are rotten feelings remaining and get them out. However, I have come to realize that sometimes I jump INTO the garbage, not good. But...at least I'm learning and I really didn't get it before and now I do. So now I know better what I don't want to do but am not exactly clear on what I do want to do. Probably I need a garbage suit meaning that I have to distance myself from those rotten feelings and I definitely don't need to be throwing that stuff at my husband.
I'll think about it some more. I was not in good thinking mode for a day or two but am doing better now. Any comments? ideas? similarities with what you are going through?
