Dear BND,

"Crap" and "ouch", pretty much sum it up. I hate MILs who let their sons do whatever they want and practically teach them to be self centered....OMG I totally relate. My mil told me the reason H lied to me was b/c he didn't want to see my reaction.....REALLY???? THAT IS SOOOO RARE AND SOOOO DIFFERENT......

Geez, as if guys lie b/c they LIKE the idea of seeing our reactions...my response to my mil was, and I quote ".......well, duh..."

In 27 years of knowing H, she has never once told him anything he did was unpleasant or less than perfect. We have her only grandchildren and she has not called ONCE in 18 months, unless H is here, to ask about the kids....

Let me say OFFICIALLY and PUBLICLY that I will be a different type of MIL.....no son of mine would do this crap and not get an earful from me. Just for the record...
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change