Hi BND.. I have been reading all the posts but didn't have anything significant to contribute. As for this post, I definitely relate to you. I know how it is when you feel lack of support from your H's family. Where does his mother and family live? In the same state as he? SO sorry you have to find this out now. I know you're going to do your best to stay calm with your H and not cause a crisis at this time. I hope you feel better about this soon. This BB is sure one good place to vent and we're all thankful for that. Hang in there and I know you will. ~PH